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Lets update you on the supposed first date with R. He came back in to town a week ago today. We were all set to to have a date on Saturday night. He lives in the city and I was going to the Giants game with my family. So I told him can I come over after the game? Like around 4 or 5. He said that would be great no problem. So Saturday morning I try calling him, I know he is still asleep so I leave him a message, no biggie. All throug the game I am waiting for him to call me, I had already made arrangements with my family, so that I would be left with a car up there, my car. Ok so any, the game ends and still no call from him. I kind of know where he lives so I start heading in that direction. I call him at 3:30, no answer leave him a message. Call him at 4:30, again leave a message. At this point, I find a place to park and just park waiting for him to call me. So I call at 5:30, still no answer. Then I call at 6 tell him that I am leaving the city and to give me a call if he is still interested. I get home, depressed, and decide fuck it, I am going out tonight. There is a club in Downtown San Jose called Splash, its a gay bar. Now I have never been to a gay bar before, and I decide to go by myself. Well as I am getting ready about 9 pm I get a text message from R. Saying holy messages. I didnt have my phone with me all day. He says that he texted me at 12 saying that a friend of his had an emergency and she was at his house having a crisis. I say I never got it. He never really says sorry. So I tell him I am going out and will talk to him later.

Splash, what a blast. Great music, good cheap drinks, beautiful boys. I know that they are well out of my reach, but my god, it was nice to watch some hot boys dance without there shirts on. Nothing like a smooth 20yo tan and hot with nice abs grooving on the stage. I will be going back. I did get my ass pinched for the first time in a bar, that was hot. Maybe this time I will work up the courage to ask someone to dance. Or just go up to them and start dancing. Who knows.

On a side note. I got laid on Wednesday night. It was pretty good. Someone from myspace. Don't know if there is a future there or anything, but it was nice. I think I need to meet someone closer to my own age.